Fucking isn’t about push in, pull out, in – out, ram it as hard as can till you cum. That is a very selfish way to have sex, because it is doubtful if your partner wil have enjoyed it as much as you have. It can be embarrassing afterwards anyway because your partner will definitely say that you are quite a lousy lay to all his friends. And you now how much queers gossip don’t you?

 

Sex is about mutual enjoyment. If you don’t get that then either go to a whore/rent boy or stay at home with a porn flick and whack off. How to be a better “fucker”? It is quite useful in fact if you have bottomed. That way I guarantee to you that you will know a great deal more on how to penetrate your partner with the minimal amount of pain and the maximum amount of pleasure.

 

I hate this so called total-tops who won’t even suck on you to stimulate you, who won’t even let you touch their ass, and who won’t even lube you up before trying to get inside you. They are the worst of fucks no matter how big their “assets” are.

 

Well enough talk and let’s get down to business! Foreplay is a MUST people. Lots of kissing, nippleplaying(if you and your partner are aroused by it), licking all over the body and genitalia. Focus on rimming for a while to get your partner all hot and bothered. Try fingering but be sure to have your nails filed down and also be sure to lick your finger before inserting it in your partners bum. See how far you can go with that. Use 2 fingers or even three if you can. Patience and a slow rhythm is what counts! Make HIM ask you to fuck him!

 

Now when you are ready to slide in him you should try a position that is quite comfortable for him at first. DON’T FORGET TO LUBE! From experience I recommend the bottom being on top so he can control the situation better and let him slide the cock in himself. However I have noticed that many men lose their stiffness this way and it isn’t hard enough to take full advantage of this position. Another position for easier penetration at first is at your side. While spooning your partner you can slide your cock inside and gently push. Another position is with the bottom lying on his stomach. While the “missionary” position is really great and romantic, allowing you to kiss each other while fucking, it is better left for later once the bottom is used to being fucked.

 

As you are sliding yourself inside your partner watch out for his reactions. If he flinches stop and even pull out a bit if he asks you. Once the biggest part of your cock is in him then slowly slide in and out (without coming all the way out) and let him get used to the idea that you are inside of him. Avoid pulling yourself out completely and then going back in otherwise you might have some embarrassing flatulation results as the penis pushes air into the rectum.

 

Don’t forget that once you are in it doesn’t stop there. It’s not just in and out till you cum now. Dirty talk, stroking, and playing with your partner’s cock is another must in order for you to get a “good fuck award”.